About Me
My Story
I was always shy when I was growing up. I didn’t have a huge amount of friends and I definitely wasn’t one of the cool kids at school. I didn’t start having girlfriends or relationships when most other people my age did and I didn’t have any confidence at all in talking to girls. It didn’t help that I didn’t have a lot of self-confidence or very strong social skills in general. When girls did very occasionally show some interest in my, they were never the ones I was particularly attracted to. I didn’t have my first girlfriend or lose my virginity until I was 19. After that relationship ended a year later, I didn’t date anyone or have any kind of relationship for four years. I was still nowhere near being able to attract the women i was interested in.
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This eventually started to change when I realised that success in dating is to a large degree a skill, which anyone can practise and improve at over time. I began to spend large amounts of time learning about a huge variety of different topics and spending large amounts of time proactively practising my skills and gaining new experience. It was a slow process and I made many mistakes along the way. While I still didn’t have any success initially, I could tell that women were slowly starting to become more interested in me, and people were perceiving me as more self-confident in general.
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Eventually after three years, I reached the point where I was occasionally finding success in dating women I was attracted to. While none of them turned into a long-term relationship, my level of success kept gradually increasing so that I was meeting more and more women, and I was finding the women I was dating more and more attractive. Six years after I first started out, I met the woman who is now my wife, and we’ve been together for the last eight years. She’s extremely intelligent, kind, interesting and fun to be with. She’s also one of the most beautiful women I’ve ever met. She’s the kind of person I could only have dreamed of being in a relationship with before. We’ve been married for five years and have wonderful one year-old son together.
Overall I was able to improve my life immensely for the better, which I consider to be the biggest achievement in my life so far. I’m extremely passionate about using what I’ve learnt to help other people improve their lives in a similar way.
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2019
Why Use My Coaching
As I started from a position of no success whatsoever at dating and was eventually able to achieve everything I always wanted to, this puts me in a unique position to help others who are struggling and would like to become more successful. I can use my own experience to help my students focus on the right areas and achieve the best possible results as quickly as possible. This allows you to improve at a much faster rate and achieve much better results than if you tried to learn on your own as I did. I can also help you avoid many of the mistakes that I made along the way.
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Over the years, I’ve gained a huge amount of knowledge on what truly makes people attracted to each other, through both in-depth research on topics like evolutionary biology, as well as through real-world experience. A lot of this knowledge isn’t widely understood or is counterintuitive. This is why the typical advice on dating that you might hear from friends, family and the media is usually so ineffective. In addition, some of the advice you hear is based on valid points but doesn’t help you in any way to actually achieve that. Everything I teach includes step-by-step approach to help you actually implement it.
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There are some dating coaches who were always naturally successful at dating. This makes it difficult to relate to their students who often find things so much harder. There are certain things which seem completely natural and effortless to them, but feel almost impossible for their students. This makes it extremely difficult for them to teach their students the required skills and achieve meaningful results. As I started out with such a low level of success and natural ability, I can break everything down for my students to show them the exact steps they need to go through to achieve the results they’re looking for.
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